Feel so lonely...

Capricorn · 31-05-2003, 13:46

I feel so lonely.

I don't have the confidence to find a girlfriend, and I'm shy anyways in general. Sigh...

Anyone else feel as lonely as me? We can feel lonely together lol.

Osborne · 31-05-2003, 13:48

do something about it instead of complaining, join a youth club or a social group, go gym or take up a sport where you meet new people.

FoxyC · 31-05-2003, 13:50

aww thats so cute.. ..

but you shouldnt feel lonely only because you havent got a girlfriend.. having a gf or bf is just a bonus .. in my opinion anyways..

and shy is cute... loads of girls like shy.

in the end.. you shouldnt think that you need someone to unlonelyfy (that should so be a word) yourself.

well i dunno.. thats probably me being over independent again

lol

Capricorn · 31-05-2003, 13:51

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Originally posted by Osborne
do something about it instead of complaining, join a youth club or a social group, go gym or take up a sport where you meet new people.

1) I have an active social life
2) I goto the gym
3) I play badminton, snooker, squash and a the odd bit of cricket

Sigh... you don't get it. Nevermind.

Asystole · 31-05-2003, 13:51

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Originally posted by FoxyC
aww thats so cute.. ..

but you shouldnt feel lonely only because you havent got a girlfriend.. having a gf or bf is just a bonus .. in my opinion anyways..

and shy is cute... loads of girls like shy.

in the end.. you shouldnt think that you need someone to unlonelyfy (that should so be a word) yourself. well i dunno.. thats probably me being over independent again lol

*thinks of a better wording for "unlonelyfy"*

aha! to validate yourself

FoxyC · 31-05-2003, 13:54

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Originally posted by barra2002
*thinks of a better wording for "unlonelyfy"*

aha! to validate yourself

lol i still prefer MY word

lol i come up with a new word everyday.. gonna start a dictionary... *staples bits of paper together*

Sean · 31-05-2003, 13:54

I'm lonely, you get over it after a while.

Asystole · 31-05-2003, 13:56

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Originally posted by FoxyC
lol i still prefer MY word lol i come up with a new word everyday.. gonna start a dictionary... *staples bits of paper together*

oooo email me a copy of it :rtfm:

btw what does the C in FoxyC stand for?

FoxyC · 31-05-2003, 13:59

sure.. everyone look out for 'Clara's Dictionary of New Words' .... coming to a bookshop near u

C-=Clara

Osborne · 31-05-2003, 14:00

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Originally posted by Mechanix01uk
1) I have an active social life
2) I goto the gym
3) I play badminton, snooker, squash and a the odd bit of cricket

Sigh... you don't get it. Nevermind.

I guess you're talking about finding a g/f :-| sorry :S

why do you lack confidence though? girls are only human afterall (sounds crazy I know) you got to start loving yourself before anyone will love you.

Think this picture sums up what I'm trying to say

Capricorn · 31-05-2003, 14:01

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Originally posted by Elfy
I'm lonely, you get over it after a while.

I've been lonely too long, and I'm not like you, I won't get "over it after a while".

It's like a part of me is missing, and it yurns to be filled.

FoxyC · 31-05-2003, 14:02

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Originally posted by Osborne
you got to start loving yourself before anyone will love you.

Think this picture sums up what I'm trying to say

LOL yeh thats what im trying to say but im pretty crap with words lol... thank you pictures eh. lol

MrSmith · 31-05-2003, 14:03

This is kinda what I was like and how I felt, i was pretty depressed but heres my story -:

I use to be like that, around 3 months ago (yes thats recent)

I had no female friends, plenty of males friends but I knew no girls as friends more as acquaintances and i felt really bad and lonely.

Then around 3 months ago I was introduced to this girl by a friend of mine who does'nt go to my school (my only friend outside school) and she was a year younger than me but really nice and talkative, usually girls hardly ever say more than a word to me and it's only when they have to. We kept on talking to each other sending about 5 texts a day to each other.
This made me feel good about myself, not that she liked me in a boyfriend sense but just that she was a friend, I felt so diffrent and had more confidence.

Then at school I started talking to girls like friends of friends girls, all negative thoughts i had just went.

Now i was told by a friend that one of the girls i met at school liked me as in attractive way, this was the first time this ever happend to me and it made me feel good...

Look, all you need if CONFIDENCE, man!

Even if your fat and ugly (not to sound harsh) if your jolly and a nice person who just talks to people you will be liked as a friend...all you need is the confidence!

FoxyC · 31-05-2003, 14:03

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Originally posted by Mechanix01uk
I've been lonely too long, and I'm not like you, I won't get "over it after a while".

It's like a part of me is missing, and it yurns to be filled.

maybe u need something else thou.. or u KNOW its cuz u want a gf?..

maybe u just want a huggy? everyone give him a huggggg!! *hug* lol

Revan · 31-05-2003, 14:05

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Originally posted by FoxyC
sure.. everyone look out for 'Clara's Dictionary of New Words' .... coming to a bookshop near u

C-=Clara

i wish i was called Clara

FoxyC · 31-05-2003, 14:05

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Originally posted by ThunderCat
i wish i was called Clara

lmao why???? whats ure name anyways?

Sirtodge · 31-05-2003, 14:06

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Originally posted by Mechanix01uk
I feel so lonely.

I don't have the confidence to find a girlfriend, and I'm shy anyways in general. Sigh...

Anyone else feel as lonely as me? We can feel lonely together lol.

i felt the same dude, then i started talkin toa few girls on here, that was 4 weeks ago, now im brimming with confidence, i got about 15 new addys on my msn

u'll be ok dude, if ure a nice enuf bloke the ladies will pick up on it

then its just a matter of choosing what one you like the most really. keep ure chin up

Capricorn · 31-05-2003, 14:07

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Originally posted by mrsmith
This is kinda what I was like and how I felt, i was pretty depressed but heres my story -:

I use to be like that, around 3 months ago (yes thats recent)

I had no female friends, plenty of males friends but I knew no girls as friends more as acquaintances and i felt really bad and lonely.

Then around 3 months ago I was introduced to this girl by a friend of mine who does'nt go to my school (my only friend outside school) and she was a year younger than me but really nice and talkative, usually girls hardly ever say more than a word to me and it's only when they have to. We kept on talking to each other sending about 5 texts a day to each other.
This made me feel good about myself, not that she liked me in a boyfriend sense but just that she was a friend, I felt so diffrent and had more confidence.

Then at school I started talking to girls like friends of friends girls, all negative thoughts i had just went.

Now i was told by a friend that one of the girls i met at school liked me as in attractive way, this was the first time this ever happend to me and it made me feel good...

Look, all you need if CONFIDENCE, man!

Even if your fat and ugly (not to sound harsh) if your a jolly and a nice person who just talks to people you will be liked as a friend...all you need is the confidence!

I'm not fat and ugly - far from it. I'm a skinny boi. :p

Maybe you're right. Confidence seems to be lacking in me.

ty for the huggle Foxy. *huggle*

Osborne · 31-05-2003, 14:07

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Originally posted by FoxyC
maybe u need something else thou.. or u KNOW its cuz u want a gf?..

maybe u just want a huggy? everyone give him a huggggg!! *hug* lol

I'm too cool to hug fellow blokes sorry

all I can manage is a nod in his general direction, hope that's ok :S

Stee · 31-05-2003, 14:13

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Originally posted by ThunderCat
i wish i was called Clara

it can be, its called weekends