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do u have female friends? what u need to do .. is .. try to have a female best friend lol .. might be easier said then done.. but.. having a close friend of the opposite sex is soooooooo good.. i mean 99.9% of my friends are male.. yes sorry.. lol but girls can really fack me off.. anyways!! .. ive had these friends for about 10 years now.. and its sooooooooo fun.. when u have such good friends of the opposite sex .. u dnt even think that ure lonely
i finished with my first bf cuz i was so bored.. cuz i was so used to the company of loads of male friends.. ok anyways thats just boring stuff..
My point: try talking to a close female friend about it!!! if u not got one.. then try .. im sure thers someone there but u just dont know it yet!!
Originally posted by FoxyC ok u need to tell me a few other things..
do u have female friends? what u need to do .. is .. try to have a female best friend lol .. might be easier said then done.. but.. having a close friend of the opposite sex is soooooooo good.. i mean 99.9% of my friends are male.. yes sorry.. lol but girls can really fack me off.. anyways!! .. ive had these friends for about 10 years now.. and its sooooooooo fun.. when u have such good friends of the opposite sex .. u dnt even think that ure lonely
i finished with my first bf cuz i was so bored.. cuz i was so used to the company of loads of male friends.. ok anyways thats just boring stuff..
My point: try talking to a close female friend about it!!! if u not got one.. then try .. im sure thers someone there but u just dont know it yet!!
I think I've got *too many* male friends, and not enough female friends. Hmm...
*Goes off to ponder in the little world that is my life*
ok have u got a good close male friend? do u get teased for not having a gf by ure many male friends? teasing is a really discreet way of trigging those sorta feelings..
Originally posted by FoxyC ok have u got a good close male friend? do u get teased for not having a gf by ure many male friends? teasing is a really discreet way of trigging those sorta feelings..
Yeah, I am teased, but not often. Just to crack a joke usually.
Originally posted by Mechanix01uk Yeah, I am teased, but not often. Just to crack a joke usually.
Thats exactly how i was....ahhhh just have some confidence!
I'm guessing your in school, what year?
Often with school it's very hard to make new friends (school can be the most evil place on earth) your best bet is too wate till college and start of by making female friends...and go from there
Originally posted by Mechanix01uk Yeah, I am teased, but not often. Just to crack a joke usually.
but i bet u take it to heart secretly thou ? yeh how old r u anyways? and mrsmith is right.. college is good for making new friends.. uni is better.. (i dont yet thou but i reckon it is)
as long as u have some friends going to college with u, ull be fine, college is alot more easy to make friends, i went to a college where none of my friends went to and i made afew friends outta a small class. 5 er so outta a 15 ppl group. so its good, just dont get on a down like it seems u r, u dont need a gf to be happy like clara says, ive been single for ages and im 18 now =o
worrying solves nothing, you've got nothing to worry about at college you'll cross that bridge when you reach it people tend to be alot nicer at college because the spastic scallies don't make it to there. Also you shouldn't except being teased, I take the michael jackson out of my friends and they do the same to me but no-one says anything that is harsh.
someone might wanna make friends with u thou u just have to co-operate and be open to anyone.. seriously..
iv got this m8 right.. hes black.. and he wants to fit in with the black crowd.. and i mean this.. like u know rude boys? that sorta crowd.. he feels he has to be like that because hes black.. and he doesnt talk to anyone else if they aint a 'rude boy' .. theres this other guy i know whos really quiet .. and just puts his head down and does his work.. i asked my friend to go and talk to him cuz theyre quite similar .. and u know what he said ' omg hell no just look at him' .. that ****ed me off so bloody god damn much .. from that day on i dnt bother helping him now. cuz hes too stubborn.. he will learn in his own time..
its got quite bad thou.. cuz hes too scared to go to the canteen cuz thats where they all hang out.. when his last lesson is over he waits about an hr til he leaves .. so that theres no1 at the bus stop.. its terrible.. but he wont listen to me.. i promised him that if anyone starts on him i will stick up for him but i guess that makes it worse as its like he cant stick up for himself.. ok im going off track again..
Originally posted by Mechanix01uk College in September.
I fear it may be worse though... Although half of my friends are going to the same College, I don't make friends *that* easily.
I hated school with a passion, I didn't have the same accent as everyone else and in a northern school that can sometimes make your life a living hell.
The day I left school my life completely changed though, I started my college courses and suddenly found that all the people I was in clases with had similar intertests so my life suddenly became really good quality with loads of people to go out with and hang around with and stuff like that.
The day you finish school, you will feel a sudden a huge burden life off your shoulders, you will suddenly be treated with just a little bit more respect and will suddenly feel more mature (a lot of it is in the head). It's a whole new way of life.
I absolutely loved my college days and wish I could go back and do it all over again.
its got quite bad thou.. cuz hes too scared to go to the canteen cuz thats where they all hang out..
Yup - I've done that a few times.
Not because of my friends though. But mainly because of some "former friends" who like to take the ****. I dunno why, but they enjoy being quite nasty.
Ah well, I stay out of there way. I know I could probably knock at least 3 of them out, no problems. But, I'm not a violent person, and I don't think I've ever been in a fight. I'd rather keep my head down.
Originally posted by Detomah I hated school with a passion, I didn't have the same accent as everyone else and in a northern school that can sometimes make your life a living hell.
Seen this, one of my mates is from Derby. And since we goto a private school in Newcastle, some people are extremely nasty to him. All because he doesn't talk the same way.