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Originally posted by marie
He doesn't actually mean it, it sounds to me like he just enjoys winding people up about it, especially you because you react this way.
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but surely that doesn't mean that I should forgive him? forgive me if I'm in the wrong but it sounds like you're in the same situation that youre trying to claim that he is in i.e. you haven't had someone close to you raped
Sorry but that's not ignorance. You don't need someone closs to you to be raped to think that it's wrong, and Marie how can you defend him, when I said "I know someone who got raped and committed suicide as a result" and he laughed!!!
Ignorance doesn't come into it, it's common sense that that's wrong.