People pass insensitive comments all the time and rarely ever mean it.
Of course if he had any idea what it was like to be raped then he would never ever suggest anyone actually likes it. In any case it would be considered consensual sex by that point.
It sounds to me that he was trying to shock you and it succeeded, and if the guy was really a good friend of yours then you went way over the top with your reaction. Simply telling him he was a prat for saying something like that, and asking him to keep opinions like that to himself should be sufficient.
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